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  The Hidden roots of people-pleasing: Unravelling early childhood and small trauma Did you know that that people-pleasing behavior often stems from early childhood experiences and can be traced back to what can be considered as small traumas? Well it does! The compulsion to please others and seek their approval often develops from the upbringing of being told to look and behave in a certain way. But here's the secret: Its entirely unnecessary.  You know why? The Truth about pleasing others You might be wondering why its so unnecessary. Simple. Because everybody is occupied dealing with their own issues. Nobody got time to analyze or scrutinize your every action or question your choices including the times when you had to say "NO" for your opinion.  People are wrapped up with their daily physical and emotional challenges. And if at all you catch someone reacting to what's considered "non-pleasing" behavior its definitely  not on you. Spe...